By Fasuyi Tolulope Samuel
Renowned gospel singer Sola Allyson has sparked conversations about financial independence in relationships, emphasizing that women should not always rely on their boyfriends for financial support.
In a recent video, Allyson recounted a past relationship where her partner was wealthy, yet she consistently refused unnecessary financial assistance. She revealed that she only accepted money when she truly needed it and always returned any excess funds.
“You start dating someone today, and by tomorrow, your phone has spoiled,” Allyson remarked, criticizing the growing trend of financial dependence in relationships.
“During my generation—well, I don’t know about others—but as for me, if you even want to give me money, I won’t collect it.
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“I was once in a relationship where my boyfriend was very rich. When he wanted to give me money, I wouldn’t take it. On the days I needed money, if I required N500 and he gave me N5000, I would remove the N500 and return the remaining N4500.”
Her statement has since ignited diverse reactions online, with some applauding her stance and others questioning its practicality in today’s world.
One user, @Mima_the_1st, humorously commented, “Wetin I go do now? Na to call Igwe make them organize award for you.”Another,
@Eniola___sarah, disagreed, saying, “Mommy, why I go Dey reject free money? Na your time be that ooo. The only thing I’m accepting with you is the one you said two days into the relationship, the girl go Dey talk say her phone don spoil.”
Similarly, @Proudafricanman remarked, “The generation she’s talking about died in 2000,” suggesting that times have changed significantly since Allyson’s dating years.
On the other hand, @Rikkyflefle shared a personal perspective: “Some ladies still do this… me, I no get one inch of courage to ask for money. I have the ‘I can do it’ mentality, even though deep down I want a baby girl treatment.”
The debate continues as Allyson’s comments challenge modern relationship dynamics, particularly regarding financial expectations between partners.
