By Fasuyi Tolulope Samuel
Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Tochi Oke, has once again stirred the relationship pot with a bold statement on Instagram that’s generating buzz online.
The reality TV star declared, “It’s more expensive now to be a boyfriend than a husband,” highlighting what many see as the shifting financial and emotional demands of modern-day dating.

Tochi, known for his candid opinions on love, lifestyle, and society, made the comment in a short post that has since attracted thousands of likes, comments, and reposts.
Many users agreed, suggesting that dating in today’s world often comes with high financial expectations — from surprise gifts and date nights to lavish getaways — even before a long-term commitment like marriage is on the table.
Others, however, challenged Tochi’s assertion, arguing that both roles come with unique responsibilities and expenses.
Tochi rose to fame during the Big Brother Naija Lockdown edition in 2020, where he quickly gained attention for his calm demeanor, grounded personality, and insightful conversations with fellow housemates.
Though he didn’t make it to the final stages of the competition, his time on the show earned him a loyal fan base and opened doors in the entertainment industry.
Since leaving the Big Brother house, Tochi has carved a niche for himself as an influencer, real estate consultant, and media personality. He’s active on social media, where he shares lifestyle content, motivational quotes, and sharp takes on trending societal issues — like the cost of modern relationships.
His recent comment has sparked debates across platforms, with many questioning the evolving dynamics of romantic relationships and the financial burden some believe is placed more heavily on men during the dating phase.